I have a confession to make.
I’m not always On the Jazz.
In fact, I would go as far as to say that I’m a frequent sufferer of bluedom. It’s not quite as deep or dark as depression, but it’s a relative.
There are many days where all I want to do is sit on my butt, watch TV, eat a bunch of unhealthy food and play on my phone. But to tell you the truth, the days when I sit around and do nothing are the days I feel the least On The Jazz. In fact, I usually feel pretty lousy.
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Recently, I’ve been feeling convicted about how many days I’ve allowed to slip by me with very little accomplished. And I’m not just talking about work stuff; I’m talking about things that I expressly have the desire to do.
But
HOW
do
I
find
the
kind
of
energy
and
self-discipline
of
energy
and
self-discipline
it
takes
to
shake
myself
free
of
apathy?
takes
to
shake
myself
free
of
apathy?
Maintaining a zest for life certainly isn’t easy, but in the end, my motivation is to create the most beautiful life I can have. Life is a choose your own adventure story…you can choose to waste a day or you can choose to take action.
The following is a list, some tips and tricks that help keep me focused and jazzy. I hope that on your blue days these ideas will help you.
Pump Yourself Up
Getting some exercise greatly increases your chances of having a good day. This is what I start my days with (most of the time.) Not only do I get the benefits of keeping myself healthy and strong, I get a hit from nature’s happy drug: endorphins! Believe me…endorphins are your friends.
When I was a kid and I would be slothing around the house in my pajamas, my mom would say to me, “Why don’t you get dressed?” Honestly, I always resented it when she’d say that. If I had the opportunity to lounge around in my PJ’s why wouldn’t I do it? Well, my mom is a smart cookie and she knows a few things about blue days, too. As an adult, I’ve found that getting ready like I’m going somewhere greatly ups my chances of productivity. Take a shower. Get dressed. Brush your teeth. Smile. You’re ready to take on the world.
Put On Some Tunes
Music is magical. The things you listen to greatly affect your mood, whether you realize it or not. While sad or angry music has its place, never underestimate the power of happy music. Put on some music that makes you smile! My personal favorites include You Sexy Thing, Get Up Offa That Thing, and Jungle Boogie. Oh! Also Superstition! Apparently funk is a blue day eraser.Write it Down
Sometimes the thing that keeps us from wanting to do anything is not having a clear picture of what we need or want to do. If your mind is a swirling vortex of tasks it can be overwhelming to choose to do even one of them. The simplest solution to Taskmageddon is to make a to-do list. Simply writing down your goals for the day will allow your brain to calm down and more readily focus on something.Environment Matters
Let There Be Light!
Make sure you have some natural light. Many people suffer from the Winter Blues or S.A.D. (Seasonal Affective Disorder) but don’t realize it. I used to live in a basement apartment that only had one window. For the 2 years I lived there I struggled and couldn’t fathom what was wrong with me...until I moved to an apartment with windows galore! It was as though I was different person…sunlight made all the difference.Clean It Up!

You’re gonna hate me for this, but let’s get real here. Make sure your workspace is clean. (I’m guilty of this one.) Trying to accomplish much in a messy space is an uphill battle. I’m not suggesting that you have a perfectly organized and flawless work space...but a little cleaning goes a long way.
Get Out of the House
Get some fresh air. Take a walk. Soak in a few rays. Even if it’s just 5 minutes, being outside can be incredibly rejuvenating.[Addendum 3/30/14: I just found this little tid-bit on another blog. Someone agrees with me!]
Take the Day Off
If you just can’t seem to get your butt in gear, go with it and allow yourself to have a day for you, but make it a day about uplifting self-care. All those things that you “just don’t have time for” might be on the agenda:
- Read a book
- Journal
- Create something
- Write an old fashioned letter
- Give yourself a pedicure
- Use that gift certificate you’ve been saving for a rainy day
- Watch that movie you borrowed from your friend a couple of years ago…
The possibilities are endless. You might just need a day off.- Read a book
- Journal
- Create something
- Write an old fashioned letter
- Give yourself a pedicure
- Use that gift certificate you’ve been saving for a rainy day
- Watch that movie you borrowed from your friend a couple of years ago…
Celebrate
This is my favorite one. Positivity is infectious. Likewise, apathy begets apathy. So, fill your mind with so much gratitude that apathy and negativity can’t get a foothold. This can be a bit tricky, but all you need to do is look around you and find things you like. For those of you who are scoffing at me, let me tell you a story:Once upon a time I woke up in the Worst. Mood. Ever. I was stomping around grumpling about how much I hated everything and kept saying that I “hated my life.” I got in my car to leave for the day and stopped short. “Self,” I said, “If you keep talking about how much you hate everything, this is going to be the worst day ever. How about we focus on things we like?” During my 15 minute drive I began to list the things I was grateful for, starting with the dumbest little thing I could find and continued until I was bubbling over with gratitude and laughter!
This has become a way of life for me, from “celebrating” seemingly small things, like my socks or a smooth rolling pen, to the big things like a roof over my head or the people in my life.
Never underestimate the
POWER
of self-talk.
You know that old phrase, “What’s wrong with this picture?” Try flipping it around: “What’s right with this picture?” It may just change your life.
Now, GO!
Choose your own adventure and stay







Good one! I've found I've channeled by carpe diem attitude into my work life, don't have as many people near me ready to drop anything and adventure as often but our friend mr. estes just had an art exhibit called "momento mori" translated "remember you will die". It's a good reminder that literally everyday you can do anything you want, there is nothing hold each of us back but ourselves. So, take your advice, make a list, a bold and big list of the things that you want to do if all your dreams came true. Then, go do it! Me, I'm thinking about doing an open water swim event, might get me ready to swim across the Chesapeake Bay. That's pretty sillllly..........
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I've always loved your adventuring attitude. In fact, being around you was probably one of the best things for me post high school. And attitudes are infections...I think I caught yours! <3
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